Read! Serious post -_- <-- serious face

[ratty]

If you would have look through it all =D

and during that time I am not around here, I am talking to her on the phone, and once in awhile I go and see her....but as of right now we kind of live several hundred miles away.....so its like couple times every few month I might get a chance to see her.

Don go wild killer, just don't assume that everyone I talk to I am seriously hitting on =p I mean ya flood i'm serious with him, cause I know he dislikes gays so I try to be serious with him =D

[SpAzErMaN]

Free Speech.

GL Ratty! Its totally up to you! and not anyone else!....Yeah!
No, seriously. If shes that good a friend, then she will either
a) turn you down, stay your friend
or
b) not accept, loose a friend :/ hopefully not
c) accept, become a better friend.

in which either case is acceptible, with the latter being.. preferable.

Well, now your under free speech, so if you had anything extra on your mind..

:edit: actually, the couch suits this one.

[ratty]

mmmmmmm thanks spaz? I don't know if that was a good idea =D as I do still feel the need to rape killer for his comment =o but ill behave.

I guess I could talk about ec s3x comment! =p NO! we have not had s3x! wtf is wrong with you! she just turned 16 several months back!!!!! I know I might come off as a pervert lol, but god no! never with someone that young. 17 would be pushing it for me even....but the age of consent is 16 here and there so I guess if it ever did happen I would be within state law, but its not going to.

s3x really isn't something important in a relationship to me, I mean yes its a natural desire, and any relationship needs s3x, but I don't think it should be your top 2 or 3 things. I would rather know the person than know all there good for is s3x, which I know you guys must be picking up your jaws seeing a comment like that coming from me, someone who talks about it a lot =D

This is why I posted this, to get your guys opinion, I could have kept it to myself.....and then one day you guys find out I got married and go WTF

Yes spaz I know what could all go wrong, but as long as we stay friends I can suffer with her and me not being together. Rather her be happy even if it means not being with me. If I lost her I would say if I don't kill myself I would be gone from the computer for several months, crying, cause I am one of those soft boys =D

[ompster]

theres a part i left out of my story, that girl is now like my best friend, so i dunno about this one, it's your choice, marriage just seems a little too extreme for this, why don't you try dating first? that way you will know what it's like being together. Also, has she told you how she feels, you said you made it clear that you like her ,etc what has she said?

[ratty]

She says she likes me and she says she loves me, but sometimes it seems as if she is questioning herself about me =( which is why I am waiting so long to possible propose. Honestly I don't know how she feels about me all the time, maybe its cause we live so far apart. But for the most part 97% of the time she tells me she loves me every time we talk, and I don't mean like one of the casual uses of the word love, but a actual sincere use =D

Ya dating, I currently am trying to get money together and move down there =D but its not going so good atm, and I could really use a roommate to help out financially =D and I would like to spend as much time with her as possible before I ask her, but its not working well with this distance, it limits the amount of time I can see her and when.

Trust me I am questioning if she really does care enough to do this or if I should wait, but I don't want to wait to long and my time pass, but I don't want to rush her into a decision, LOVE!!! its a pain in the butt =D always throwing anything it can at you to slow you down =D Sometimes I swear I should have turned gay lol.

[ompster]

well atleast your mature enough to take into consideration all the things you've been saying. Like distance and if she really does love you. The balls in your court tho. I just can't see there being marriage without dating first unless it's an arranged marriage lol. And as for the distance thing, THEY DON'T WORK! lol. That failed bad last time i did that

[fl00d3d]

lilsnooks is gunna be PISSED!

[Grimes [3rd ID]]

lilsnooks is gunna be PISSED!

LOL! I'm sorry, I have to come back for that one.. :p

Yeah, like omp said, I mean sure, you've known her for 6 years, but aren't dating, yet planning to get married, and you live far away. Heh :/

[ratty]

Flood and killer!!!!! ya i'm kind of wondering how snooks is going to take all of this =D I am sure she wont be mad...at least I hope not.

Omp, I know long distances dating doesn't work out, thats why I haven't asked her out =p But yes I really know this is kind of a big leap of faith, but she is young, she is attractive, and I have a good chance of losing her if I don't do anything. I would rather attempt and fail than never try =D at least I could live with the fact she doesn't want me =o But yes I would rather date her for awhile but unless I move down there I cant, and i'm sure I would date her before I proposed, i'm not totally insane.....just a little though.

Donate to the ratty fund =D

[ecstasy]

Why is everyone hating on Ratty? Can't crazy people find love too? Lol just kidding Ratty, I know i'm like you in a lot of ways, but just not as hyper as you get. I flirt with Ratty all the time, doesn't make me gay. Anyway, good luck Ratty i'm sure she will say yes, and remember, if you ever need a best man, i'm always available.

[medici]

I can do it over MSN

[raulperez]

long distance CAN work, it's just a lot harder

[ecstasy]

If your relationship is based on personality, and not just physical attractiveness, then a long distance relationship really isn't that hard.

[fl00d3d]

One of the most primitive human needs is companionship and human touch. With time these needs will have to be met. And if not by you ... by someone else.

Hard facts.

[ecstasy]

Yes, and if you don't find them, then you get emo. One of the things that evolution has not changed.