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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 2:22 am
by ratty
So, later this year like November or December, I am proposing to a girl =o!!!

I have known her for almost as long as I have been playing renegade, and she use to play! =D So if things go as planned =D and she says yes! (woo) We wont actually be getting married till 09 probably as I want her to finish up high school first =D

Well all I can really say is......I have spent a lot of time helping her =D you know through all those rough times of breaking up with boyfriends, and normal girl stuff =D BUT! I can say she is attractive, shes fairly intelligent =D! and wants to pursue a career in dance (on a dance team right now) or nursing =D she hasn't made up her mind yet, you know women =D id post a picture of her, but killer has spoken with her and seen pictures before and i don't want her finding out anytime soon =D (Not that I don't trust killer) So when it gets closer ill give you guys a picture =o

So......this is going to be a big change, since this fall I plan to move down to her area, so all I can say is i'm very nervous and hope she says yes =o if not i'm gonna be very ='( for a long time.

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 2:24 am
by ompster
good luck mate, hope it all goes well for you. have you been dating for long?

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 2:27 am
by ratty
Dating nah we don't date, we are 2 close to date =D we are like brother sister close =D we don't feel the need to date =D but I guess if you want to kinda put it in dating perspective 5yrs

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 2:53 am
by medici
Good look ratface!

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 3:56 am
by Commie
SEXY TIMES AWAIT!

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 4:16 am
by fl00d3d
Ratty, how old are you?

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 5:21 am
by medici
19 I think :P

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 7:44 am
by sinestro
n1 good luck

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 8:04 am
by Grimes [3rd ID]
fl00d3d wrote:Ratty, how old are you?
Exactly what I was thinking after "when she gets out of highschool".

Ratty, no offense, but you really need to be careful.. I mean, she JUST became legal, but your proposing in 10 months :/

Well, its your decision, and either way, I wish you luck bud.

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 8:41 am
by Cursed
he told me he was 17, i told him it was a stupid idea cause he hasnt gotten past puberty yet. (and it is)

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 9:52 am
by fl00d3d
I got married when I was 19 to an 18yr old. Got divorced a few years later. Met Metal Vixen at work when I was 23 and she had just turned 18, and even though we hit it off ... (1) we didn't get engaged until years later (2) she was working a professional job.

Highschool sweethearts are wonderful until you both get out into the real world. Then you start going at eachother's throats as you begin to explore. And by the time you hit 21 you're both out drinking with friends all the time and lose your grasp on reality.

My advice: if you're going to be with someone so young, #1 is to wait until they're out of highschool before even taking things seriously. #2 is dating for a few years AFTER they get out of highschool to see what kind of a person they are once they develop into a full adult. People change numerous times, and drastically, between the years of 18 and 24.

"Been there, done that".

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 11:51 am
by ratty
Ya flood I know I know =D but like i said if everything goes good ill do it this year, but honestly I doubt it will.....plus I might end up putting it off if I don't feel i'm ready yet =o

I understand what everyone is saying, but we know each other really well.....I probably know more about her than flood does vix (Just a assumption). Which could be good or bad i guess, and I know people change a lot when there as young as me =D But so far in the 5 years we have know each other our feeling haven't changed, but that doesn't mean they cant I know.

I wouldn't mind putting it off if she wasn't ready or wanted to goto college right away, definitely want her to get a good education =D

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 11:58 am
by fl00d3d
I've been through more in one year with metal vixen than most grown adults will ever experience in their lifetime of marriage. So I highly doubt that, lol. We've had a rough ride the last few years.

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 12:02 pm
by ratty
Thats why I said assumption =D!!!!! But she made a change in the last few months, she use to act I guess like a child, but in the last 4 months she has made a big change and is acting more like a fl00d3d =D

I dk, I want it to work out =D but I cant force it to, but I know we will have problems, what couple doesn't?

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Posted: January 16th, 2008, 12:06 pm
by fl00d3d
Trust me, you do NOT want to marry a fl00d3d. RUN! :suicide: