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[sinestro]

ive been with my women since i was 16...she was 21.
im now 31 and she is 36....
been married 7 years this march and we r doing good...and have 4 sons
so u dont know if things would work out or not...

[ratty]

See sine is proof!!!! that there is hope for us =D!

(Go away googlebot) =D

[MetalVixen]

Waaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitttt a minute. You're about to propose and yet you flirt like hell with VERY young girls on Renegade servers? LMFAO

Anyway, you gotta follow your heart ultimately...but fl00d is right. And I'm living proof. I was stable when I was 18, 19....but as soon as I hit 20, 21 I started really growing up and wanting to experience life in it's entirety. So I became a different person, I guess. So keep in mind that you're young. People change, hearts change. You don't know if this girl/woman will always be the same chick as you know her now. And 17 is way too young to get married, I think. Society says it won't last...and the more you have to prove it wrong, the worse off you'll be.

So I suggest...take time, REALLY think about it and be certain she'll say "yes." But in the end, do what's right for you.

[ratty]

Yes mv I flirt around online, but you know I do it cause i'm bored =D and once/if we get married I will stop.....as for thinking about it....I have been thinking about it for almost 2 yrs now, but just want her to finish school before I drop a question like that on her.

I know 17 is young to marry, but i'm not 17 =D and she will be 17 when I propose, but we wont get married till shes 18...which is still young but at least she will have had time to think it over for a year.

My heart and brain says yes, but society says no =D if it works out thats great if it doesn't, I don't want to hold her back from living her life the way she wants =o

[Grimes [3rd ID]]

Honestly, just stay friends till you both are ATLEAST almost done with college.. Hell, if not friends, lovers, sure, but marriage is just not right if your 18 (No offense fl00d, just my opinion).

[mmmcrak]

i like u u like me lets have a sexy time lol thats from borat lol well ratty i never think this would happen but it did ok lol gl to u man

[ecstasy]

gl ratty, hope it all works out for you. best man?

[ratty]

Sorry there Ecstasy =D already have someone in mind =o

I know crak, your sad i'm going to be off the market for you now, its k, I still love you =D

[ecstasy]

rlly?

[SpAzErMaN]

[ompster]

umm u never dated? but ur want to get married? have u even kissed her before? Don't take her friendship as something more.Ive been in that situation before, i was stupid and young and i thought it was something more, but i learned the hard way. JUST FRIENDS. If you haven't dated theres probably a reason for that.

[ecstasy]

knowing ratty, they prolly have sexed it up a lot =D he is scene after all

[Grimes [3rd ID]]

Honestly, I don't think he has done her. Why? Because the way he's been acting. If you love someone, truly love someone, you don't go around cybering with other people 5 years young (+ WAY underage).

[ratty]

I'm not even going to answer the s3x one. As for killer's i'm not going to reply fully cause it would end up having to go under free speech or id end up saying something ill regret. All i'm going to say is, she knows how I act and she knows i'm not serious, and if you think i'm serious when i'm talking to people like that, then you are wrong my good chum. (If you want when I speak to lilsnooks again and get her permission, ill post the logs of our conversation and you can see, ill post conversation of anyone else you want to)

ompster!

No we haven't really dated, and I understand your generally concern, We are very close as I said before. Brother sister close, I know some of you think I am here all day, but i'm actually not around my pc for about 12hrs a day(I know someone might eventually bring it up)....and during that time I am not around here, I am talking to her on the phone, and once in awhile I got and see her....but as of right now we kind of live several hundred miles away.....so its like couple times every few month I might get a chance to see her. We are very close emotionally, and talk/share everything, but i'm not going into detail on all of that. Ya maybe we are just really good friends, but she knows I have feelings for her...and this isn't the first time marriage has come up between us. So I don't know what else to say referring to that.

As for the kissed her, every time we get together yes, but i'm not going to kiss my computer screen when we talk online or she gets on web cam.

I think I have covered everything =D

[Grimes [3rd ID]]

Ratty, I'm going to honestly ask you this..

Taking the assumption of 'hundreds of miles away' meaning she lives no where near you.. Have you really, ever met this person? I don't know if it's me, for I don't really believe in long distance relationships :/

Well I'm done here, before I take a wild turn. Whatever you do bud, be smart, and good luck to you.