by sadistik » January 30th, 2008, 10:03 pm
That's good, I hope everything goes even better than you plan. =D GL when it happens.. It's good you're waiting a while after she graduates.. the funny thing I think our age differences (you and your girl) and (me and my ex) were about the same.. I was 20, just about to turn 21, she just graduated hs that year, and started college.. That first semester of college was I think the final blow that helped kill my relationship for good.. You don't understand how much I hope that never happens to anyone else.. But there was a lot I didn't see in my own relationship.. I look back on Things now and wonder what the hell I was thinking.. since you aren't really rushing into things, Like I was, Things should be better for you tho.. =D One other bit of advice.. If she does accept your proposal, Dont in any way make her feel obligated to her word, that could make a "i'm being pressured into this" feeling for her.. that was another mistake I made.. The only words she should have to be bound to are, "I do," when it does happen..
/me feels like Dr. Phil
That's good, I hope everything goes even better than you plan. =D GL when it happens.. It's good you're waiting a while after she graduates.. the funny thing I think our age differences (you and your girl) and (me and my ex) were about the same.. I was 20, just about to turn 21, she just graduated hs that year, and started college.. That first semester of college was I think the final blow that helped kill my relationship for good.. You don't understand how much I hope that never happens to anyone else.. But there was a lot I didn't see in my own relationship.. I look back on Things now and wonder what the hell I was thinking.. since you aren't really rushing into things, Like I was, Things should be better for you tho.. =D One other bit of advice.. If she does accept your proposal, Dont in any way make her feel obligated to her word, that could make a "i'm being pressured into this" feeling for her.. that was another mistake I made.. The only words she should have to be bound to are, "I do," when it does happen..
/me feels like Dr. Phil